one, the more information the human face of the results of the worse choice
the saying goes, determine Psychology
University of Texas researchers said, people often holds that the more relevant information to make decisions, the better. The new study has reached the opposite conclusion. Those tested were asked to provide a computer program to answer 250 questions, and calculate the cumulative score. Some people know in advance the number of questions and options, some people do not know any information. It was found that the more information that people know the score lower. This shows that choice, too much information but may affect people's decision.
Second, why do women love a man's hand pull it?
physical contact with women like to express their goodwill and intimacy, between men and straight men, magnanimous and selfless, they rarely to represent the feeling of closeness with the action.
children like to side like a baby nestled in adults, it is the performance of animal property.
with age, people in a rational and mature animals to the gradual degradation of the original habits, hidden to the rational behind. When a woman is shy or not good at using language to express their feelings, she got used to physical contact with this most original and most straightforward approach as a means to convey their feelings. In this sense, women and children are more animal than man's.
from a psychological point of view, women's heavy feeling, thinking the problem is also a seat of your pants, and their senses more sensitive than men, especially the sense of touch. Therefore, women are more accustomed to the feeling of touch to replace the language of expression. Date with his girlfriend when people not only use the ears to hear what she says but also what to do with her eyes. Only then can a more accurate insight into the true intentions of her heart.
body state study found that linguistic experts, each person has a psychological Every self-centered, four weeks to expand to form a mental egg defensible space, once the invasion of other people, will cause him (her) tension, vigilance and resistance. The more unfamiliar, the greater the distance between each other, the greater the interval between the body. On the contrary, the psychological distance of defensible space will gradually shrink the school, for example, the normal between husband and wife relationship between parents and children the most intimate, so the psychological distance between them can be reduced to zero, that close contact between the body produces.
Therefore, if your companion in the walk, always like to hold your hand close to or touching your body and your mind that she has been greatly shortened the distance, she do not care about you penetrated her
Some men do not understand the way a woman close to this expression, when his girlfriend's body close to him, then elated, mistaking her own desire for a physical, and he probably will be very disappointed . Woman touch a man's body, is not entirely to the physical contact, and more from the spiritual, psychological closeness, she may be just as close to your goodwill and Bale said. This is the only and must not aspire to the impossible.
three concerts, and why the audience would sing along?
had introverted, shy speaking in front of people, a concert will follow when the loud singing, watching sports competitions will cheer loudly for the athletes. The same person in different situations how would there be such a big change? When people put their bodies being buried in, the individual awareness will become very weak. Psychology, this phenomenon is called Weak after the change of individual consciousness, to not notice someone to watch their surroundings, feel that Great desire to make himself open to a sense of further growth. Anyway, no one around to know themselves, nor did the shackles of relationships, so shy of people in this occasion will be singing loud, loud cheer. In addition, shouting out, but also a way to release stress, can make people feel comfortable. Therefore, some people even shouted my addiction.
However, if this state continues, but there are some risks. When people are too weak self-awareness, it will start to feel something is not their own doing. Such as the avid football fan, if the self-consciousness is too weak, it could develop into a danger to society Of course, While maintaining a social group, the
psychologist Jinbaerde Zengyi female college students is the object of a terrible experiment. He let in the experiment of female university students who were punished for making mistakes. These female students were divided into two groups, one group of people hanging their names his chest, while another group of people were over my head, others can not see their faces. Dressed by the staff who make mistakes, the psychologist invited female students to participate in the experiment to give directions, so that they punish people for making mistakes, punishment is electric shock. Experimental results show that the head was covered in that group of people, shock offenders longer. Thus, sometimes,
Fourth, learn to resolve their conflict
baby when the baby and other small conflicts between partners, parents first reaction is probably the baby as soon as possible to teach problem-solving approach, however, The latest studies show that this approach does not allow baby to become more cooperative, more easily with people.
the best way is not to teach him to solve the problem, but rather to help baby sort out a problem-solving ideas, so that he could imagine a variety of problem-solving. After the baby in the face of this training conflict, will continue to transform ways to achieve their goals, and a lot more
and wayward baby do not rivalry.
child looks very willful child, grow up may be a strong-minded, capable, innovative, there are as people, not necessarily a bad thing. Therefore, when the baby wayward, the parents not to indulge in rivalry with him, but to take the right way to help him learn to control his emotions, regulate their own behavior. If the parents bad attitude, see the baby's wayward behavior severely reprimanded, but the growth of baby negative.
Fifth, take the elevator, why do people always look up
one day, take the elevator, I as usual, looked up at the number of display floor, suddenly aware of: Why, when every time I take the elevator up will be looked up to see it? Also, I looked around and found that they actually like me, also looked up the floor looking at the number shown. Is there any number of floor displays of magic it? What is incredible is the psychological effect of work behind it?
In fact, the behavior of the elevator looking up with our The so-called private space, is in a certain space around our bodies, when someone broke into our private space, we will feel uncomfortable, uneasy. The size of personal space vary, but generally around 0.6-1.5 m, about 1 meter. According to the survey data show that private space of women than men in the big, aggressive personalities more private space. In a crowded tram, we will feel uncomfortable, it is because people go into their personal space.
elevator is a very small space. In the elevator, people's private space appeared intersection, that is felt each other into their own private space, they will feel uncomfortable, anxious to leave as soon as possible in this narrow space elevator. As soon as possible to the point of view it is like to
Furthermore, staring at the floor of the figures show, not just to confirm to their going to the floor. When we hurry to leave this small space, the number of non-stop change makes us feel the elevator moving, so we feel they are in a
VI Road see, unfortunately, why do not want a helping hand extended?
in the subway or on the road to see the difficulties of the elderly, in fact, everyone wants to go and they are one mind. However, the real action seldom. Is it because the city's people are more shy? Does have this factor, but the proportion of very small.
have another psychological reasons, so that we do not want to lend a helping hand, and that is when many people around, we would like to mind: helping hand extended. In psychology, this phenomenon is known as the Ringelmann
German psychologist has done a dragnet for all the experiments. The results, when drawing in the net increase in the number of people, each person is reduced the force out of it. Originally, we believe that the increase in the number of multiplying the effect will play, that every one out of the force will increase, but it is not. When the number of the more long time, people will feel more
the presence of someone else, people always think: kinds of psychological effects of work results.
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